What Al-Quran says about the aim of this life

By all of modesty lets we are scrutinized the advice of Al-Quran about the aim of this life.

This advice is for all
For whom who has aim
For whom who is aimless
This is for all
Everyone who seeking for the goodness.

Married is for the deen
Married is chaste, remember that
Admittedly married could because of the wealthness,
because of beauty,
couse of heredirarity and becaused of faith.
Don't make the wealthness, heredirarity, beauty as the reason
Cause all of that could lead you to the calamitous,
So Please use faith as the reason
It will lead you to the happiness.

We are can't denied if love is the founder of family
but
if love you use as the anvil,
then your home will be brittle and easy to destroyed.
Use "ALLAH" as the anvil
Surely you will be blessed,
Not only in this life,
also at the great beyond
Use the bless of Allah as the aim
Surelly mawaddah, sakinah dan warahmah you will reach.

Never desire you will be the king in "your palace"
Welcoming by your wife when you are arrived and served everything you wanted
If you are still do it then "your palace" can't imperishable.

Take look to the noble person Muhammad saw
Never angry when he have to slept in front of the door,
placed by His turban,
because His beloved wife (aishah ra) don't know His coming.

Always smile even there is nothing to eat
There are no foods served when He is hungry
Sewed His rived cloths

Never desire you will be the queen in "your palace"
Beloved, spoiled and served by your husband
get everything you wanted
If thats you wanted, "your palace" will be like hell for you

Don't love too much your wife
Don't follow what ever your wife desired
If you do that then you will be misfortune
You can't see the different between white and black,
You can't see the right and the wrong
Take a look how was Allah rebuke your "Prophet"
when he made the lawful become unlawful
because he followed his wife desired.

Be emphatic to you wife
With your loves, asked her to obey Allah
Don't let her follow her willing
Take look how was Noah and Lot wifes
Under guidance of selected man,
they are become opposer
Your wife could be your enemy

Teach your wife
Make her like Hajar, the modesty women,
who have loyalty to her husband mission, Ibrahim as.
Make her like Maryam, the modesty women
who keep her self chaste
Make her like Khadijah ra, the modesty women
who would companion her husband Muhammad saw to do the holy mission

Your wife is your responsbility
Don't stop them to obey Allah
Let them become pious muslimah
Let them become Hajar or Maryam
Don't you shackle her with your ego

If you become a wife
Don't push your husband to do your desire
Don't push your husband to disobey Allah
Prepare your self like Hajar, who has loyalty to her husband mission
Prepare your self like Maryam, who could keep her chaste
Prepare your self like Khadijah, who could companion her husband to do the holy mission.

Don't you badger your husband with your whimper
Don't you badger your husband with your crying
If you do that
His love will forcing him become insurgent
don't

If you become a father
Be a wise father like Luqmanul Hakim
Be emphatic father like Ibrahim
Be affection father like Muhammad saw
Take your children to get to know Allah
Teach them how to do the righteous
Take them to obey Allah
Make them like the devotedly Yusuf
Make them like the obedient Ismail
Don't make them like the rebellios Kan'an.

Asked to Allah
Asked Allah, to make them become shalihah children
The children who will bring the happiness.
The children who love the prophet, his ahlul bayt and the salafusholih.

If you become a mother
Be a wise mother, a shaddy mother
Lead your children with your attention
Make them become pious muslims
Make them become the soldiers of Allah
Don't make them become lazy and rebel
This life is only for Allah Subhanahu Wa Taala